Many
people are reluctant to admit they have a debt problem to themselves, their
families, work colleagues or their closest friends. Debt can surprise the most
prudent person and the consequences will always get worse if its left and
ignored.
For most people the first step in understanding
a debt problem is too acknowledge it. Before any positive resolution can begin
this is a vital step in financial recovery. The sooner you tend to a debt
problem the simpler the solution will be.
Acknowledge the Problem
Whichever
recovery plan you choose you must always begin by acknowledging you have a debt
problem and understanding the scale of the
debt. Often debt is hidden or forgotten for so long that by the time the debtor
has finally acknowledged the scale of their problem their only option might be
forced bankruptcy or insolvency.
Next, prepare a budget listing ALL of your
income and expenditure now and for the future (this is important so you can immediately understand the concept of
change).
Try and stay positive! Most debt problems however severe they might look
are recoverable. This is not the end.
Once you can fully understand what lies ahead and how you got in this financial
position debt recovery can be fairly painless if handled correctly.
Debt is like an illness
The constant worry of debt is unsettling. The secretive nature of the problem
makes the general subject taboo and it can make a previously outward and bright
person, withdrawn and moody. Unmanaged debt can cause problems at work, serious
relationship problems and ultimately lead to marriage breakdown.
Debt can often be a symptom of a wider problem. Unless the cause of the
symptoms are taken care of the debt cycle will most likely begin again.
What causes debt?
The debt disease can be caught in many ways and effects different people from
all walks of life. A sudden change of financial circumstances such as an
increase in mortgage rates, drug and alcohol abuse, compulsive spending,
gambling, a care free attitude to money and many human tendencies all create
financial problems and feed the virus-like grip on your finances that debt can
have. Whatever the problem it must be identified and addressed.
The First Aid
Before any debt plan can begin you must stop the situation getting any worse.
The chances are you will be missing payments, getting charges, paying high
interest on the minimum payment when you can afford it and you need help. You
must treat the problem.
There is no such thing as a quick fix.
As a debt problem is a symptom of a wider problem, a well wishing relative or
friend that simply settles the debt might only be delaying the inevitable
unless the debtor embarks on a recovery plan to prevent him or her slipping
back into the debt cycle.
Borrowing money from family, although a favoured option can sometimes cause ill
feeling with other family members. If you are lucky enough to borrow money from
a family member make sure that you include in your future budgets the
repayments for any loan to clear debt.
Do you have a serious debt
problem?
Missing direct debits and getting over limit fees
Arrears on your mortgage
Cheques being dishonoured
Your card is rejected
Having difficulties paying off the monthly limit
on your credit card
Late paying bills (telephone, gas and electricity etc.)
Spending more than you earn
Don't know how much debt you are in
Avoiding phone calls and hiding letters
If you have any of these symptoms
you need some fist aid for your finances
How bad is Your Debt Problem
Serious debt poses immediate problems. One of the first things you must
do is prioritise your debts.